As mums, it's only natural to put your children's needs first. However, constantly people pleasing as a mother can have negative impacts on your life. If you are always focused on pleasing others, you may be neglecting your own needs and desires. This can lead to unhappiness, lack of fulfilment, and even resentment towards your loved ones.

Here are some ways that people pleasing as a mum can hold you back:

1. Loss of Identity

Mothers who are always focused on pleasing others may find themselves losing sight of their own identity. They may feel like they have given up their own interests and passions in order to prioritise the needs of their family. This can lead to feelings of confusion, dissatisfaction with life and a lack of purpose.

2. Burnout

The constant effort to please others can also lead to burnout. As a mother, your responsibilities are seemingly endless. Without taking breaks, you may find yourself feeling mentally and physically exhausted.

3. Overcommitment

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MUMS, listen up! Are you living a life of complacency?
If you have found this blog, I think it's time to take a hard look at your life and find out. As a proud mother, it's easy to get swept up in the routine of caring for your children, their needs, and their activities, setting your own aspirations and goals aside. But are you truly living the life you envisioned for yourself? It's time to dig deep and identify if you're living in complacency, and I'm going to tell you how.

First off, have you lost touch with your passions? I know firsthand how easy it is to forget the things we love as we focus on our family. But let me tell you, abandoning your passions is like abandoning a piece of your soul. Don't let that happen. Make time for the things you love, whether it's painting, running, or cooking. Take an hour or two each week and indulge in your passion. Trust me, you'll feel more fulfilled and happier for it.

Secondly, are you stuck in a monotonous routine? Believe me, there's...